“Valentine’s Day” – #MSDStrong

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have the normal connotations anymore. It doesn’t mean red hearts and love. It doesn’t mean going out with friends or significant others and celebrating relationships. It all changed last year. No one had a say in giving up this day of love every year for the rest of our lives. It just happened that way.

Today is Valentine’s Day. I don’t celebrate with a significant other. I celebrate with my girls. We get wine, ice cream and watch movies all night. It’s a day to be thankful for those you have. Not to mourn those lost.

February 14th 2018, that all changed. I can’t gather with my girls and laugh carelessly about boys of the past. I can’t eat ice cream and lose myself in wine-induced thoughts.

I have to mourn. I have to think about the 17 neighbors of mine who were taken from us in America’s largest mass shooting. I have to think about my community and how our home was hit. Especially this year, on the one year anniversary, I feel worse than ever.

I’m away. I’m across the world with no one here who understands. I want to be with my community, my family. I want to join hands with my neighbors and feel the empowerment of numbers. I want to light candles for those lost and share stories about the good times they had.

This day is forever changed.

Although I sound cynical I do believe we need to find a way to make this day a positive one. A celebration of life rather than another funeral. If we treat it like a funeral, if we don’t turn this into something positive, he wins. And he can’t win.

Gather with your loved ones. Buy chocolate and flowers. Dedicate this day of love to our 17 angels. Celebrate their lives and yours as well. The world is a scary place sometimes but if we search for the beauty in it we can make a difference. Our community is so strong and I’m forever positive, passionate, and proud to be an Eagle. Happy “Valentine’s Day.”

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Zoe Zbar

My name is Zoe and I'm a 22-year-old student at the University of South Florida. Join me as I document my journey through life. I'll write the good, the bad, the ugly, the pretty, the funny, the sad, and everything in between. Don't be afraid to let me know what you think. Enjoy!

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